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essenceofink · 08-18-2010, 07:32 PM

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Im not sure if I believe in a soulmate...especially from one life to the next. How do we know who we've loved in the past. Do we find them in the next life? And are you ment to love only that person.

Ive herd and believe that from the time you start a life its already mapped out for you. Who you will meet, marry and have children with. Who will die before, and live after you.

Does the spirt of a person follow you to your other lives?

And can you love more then one person in each life?

1TxLady · 08-18-2010, 08:05 PM

Good question.... I have so many thoughts on this and it's not only controversial for me and others. I believe in soul mates and I don't believe in coincidences in life. I also believe there is a difference in soul mates and heart mates and the greatest connection of all envelopes both.

I don't think everything is orchestrated by fate or whatever other word you want to attach to predestination. I do believe some things are because we have lessons to learn in order to evolve to the next consciousness level. Many will disagree with this... and that is just hunky dory ...but I won't debate it. It is my belief and my opinion from life experience and research.

To share more reasons than I already have on this forum in other places concerning this subject and the one of reincarnation, I can't yet. It would lead me to open a wound that after 15 years is barely healed. Not sure I can do that yet. Suffice to say, yes they do exist. I think we have many soul mates for various reasons... from and in various lifetimes.

How do we know who we have loved in the past? I don't think we do until it has happened and I do believe when it does happen both know it, not just one. I also don't think we life progress necessarily by gender but by energy.

Follow? Perhaps that is were predestination plays a part....happenstance perhaps, but I doubt it.

Yes, we can truly love more than one person in a lifetime.

Reverend Mother · 08-18-2010, 08:06 PM

This is what happened to me. 2 weeks before we were to move out of our house and 20 miles away, my youngest son was running a fever. I went to the local Jewel Food store. I was in a hurry as I wanted to get back to him as fast as I could. I raced around the store with my cart, I came around a end corner and slammed head on into another cart. I looked up to apologise and then it hit ! A vioce in my head went off like a fire alarm !
"My God , you're alive ! They told me you were dead ! They told me you were dead !!!" Then this intense feeling of the deepest love overwhelmed me. A love I had never experienced before. Now I looked worse than what the cat dragged in !
Then I told myself that this was silly, I didn't know this man ! I said I was sorry and went on my way. It was more like a run actually !
Ok, I am at the checkout. I go to reach from my purse and I look up. That same man was behind me. He had a little boy in his cart who was about the same age as my youngest.
The voice went off again. "Say something to him !!!" What ?? I thought. Finally I said, " I have a little boy his age at home. " That was all I could manage. I paid my bill and left.
Since that time in November of 1985, I have regretted not getting his name or phone. I know that he felt something too. If I could see him again,at least once more. I'd like to know what or if he felt the same thing I did.
This is a good thread, I just hope that the experience wasn't " ships passing in the night "

1TxLady · 08-18-2010, 08:19 PM

RM.... there was a reason for that encounter....I think you missed the opportunity.... we all have at times.

The question is opportunity for???

I think from some we learn something...from others we give something...from others we were meant to share space and time in this journey bu perhaps not forever....from others we come together to make something.

essenceofink · (This post was last modified: 08-18-2010 08:22 PM by essenceofink.)

(08-18-2010 08:06 PM)Reverend Mother Wrote: This is what happened to me. 2 weeks before we were to move out of our house and 20 miles away, my youngest son was running a fever. I went to the local Jewel Food store. I was in a hurry as I wanted to get back to him as fast as I could. I raced around the store with my cart, I came around a end corner and slammed head on into another cart. I looked up to apologise and then it hit ! A vioce in my head went off like a fire alarm !
"My God , you're alive ! They told me you were dead ! They told me you were dead !!!" Then this intense feeling of the deepest love overwhelmed me. A love I had never experienced before. Now I looked worse than what the cat dragged in !
Then I told myself that this was silly, I didn't know this man ! I said I was sorry and went on my way. It was more like a run actually !
Ok, I am at the checkout. I go to reach from my purse and I look up. That same man was behind me. He had a little boy in his cart who was about the same age as my youngest.
The voice went off again. "Say something to him !!!" What ?? I thought. Finally I said, " I have a little boy his age at home. " That was all I could manage. I paid my bill and left.
Since that time in November of 1985, I have regretted not getting his name or phone. I know that he felt something too. If I could see him again,at least once more. I'd like to know what or if he felt the same thing I did.
This is a good thread, I just hope that the experience wasn't " ships passing in the night "

I totally know where you are coming from. And for "Ships passing in the night" well Im not sure yet. Its almost as if you and they both know that the meeting was ment to be. And remembered. Weather its to be acted upon now or 20 years from now...Love is a very complex thing. I dont think it will ever be explained to the highest of its ability.

(08-18-2010 08:19 PM)1TxLady Wrote: RM.... there was a reason for that encounter....I think you missed the opportunity.... we all have at times.

The question is opportunity for???

I think from some we learn something...from others we give something...from others we were meant to share space and time in this journey bu perhaps not forever....from others we come together to make something.

I couldnt have said it better!

Reverend Mother · 08-18-2010, 08:32 PM

Well, being a widow now, I would love to have him come back into my life, at least , if nothing else , to see if that deepest of love is still there. Is that too much to ask for ?

1TxLady · 08-18-2010, 08:38 PM

(08-18-2010 08:32 PM)Reverend Mother Wrote: Well, being a widow now, I would love to have him come back into my life, at least , if nothing else , to see if that deepest of love is still there. Is that too much to ask for ?

Since you phrased this as you did, when you first saw that person, you also knew who he was before ??

Reverend Mother · 08-18-2010, 08:50 PM

I knew him , but no name came to mind at that time. I wish I could go back and do it differently. I don't regret much in this life. But I do regret leaving him that night without even exchanging names !

1TxLady · 08-18-2010, 08:55 PM

With tears in my eyes, I understand.

Reverend Mother · 08-18-2010, 09:14 PM

I think of him on and off. Is it wrong to ask God to bring him back to me after all this time ? I wouldn't want that if he was married and had his own family and was happy. It would be wonerful to be loved by someone that deeply. Tx Lady, can you share your's ? Is it really something that I should just accept ?