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**Ali** · 03-17-2010, 11:48 AM

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. If a member posts something that another member disagrees with, so be it. This is a forum. Not every response will be positive or negative, but each response is allowed.

ghia · 03-17-2010, 11:57 AM

You no how Iam Im sencetive.Thanks,just wanted to get a few things off my chest.Thats what this sections for ,Right.
Not going crazy I promise.
Got to get back to the books now, thanks for debate.
Love ya all.

SweetBell · 03-17-2010, 12:10 PM

(03-17-2010 11:48 AM)Ali Wrote: Everyone is entitled to their opinions. If a member posts something that another member disagrees with, so be it. This is a forum. Not every response will be positive or negative, but each response is allowed.

I just wanted to clear up what I meant in my post:

I didn't mean to imply that I think people shouldn't post their opinion if it's different from someone else's. Part of the fun is in debating. That's what creates stimulating conversation. But when a person posts his or her opinion in a way that makes another feel bad about themselves? That's wandering into the realm of cyber-bullying. What I said was more directed to the flamers and trollers out there, not the people looking for a good conversation.

And ghia, I hope you have a good day. Icontexto-emoticons-03-032x032

brit · (This post was last modified: 03-17-2010 01:55 PM by brit.)

(03-17-2010 11:47 AM)SweetBell Wrote: You can't please everyone. There's always someone that's going to be upset over something. As a people-pleaser, I've totally been in the situation where you're trying to make everyone happy and it just...doesn't work. It just seems to make things worse.

Anyway, like Robot said, you aren't forcing anyone to read what you wrote. They don't have to read it, they don't have to respond. If they don't like it, then they shouldn't read it.

Really? You must be kidding me? If I read something I don't like, I can not reply? Well I guess I must be breaking that rule right now, and honestly I do not care one bit lol.
If someone posts, Im going to read it. If Im bothered by what they said, Im sure as hell going to reply and say my opinion.
What's the point of posting here if you might disagree with someone? Disagreements always lead to someone feeling bad about themselves. Nobody likes to admit theyre wrong.

Ghia- If you don't like your gift, I suggest tuning it out. Keep yourself busy somehow. Im not sure if you have any hobbies, but I suggest finding one to help you keep your mind from wandering.

**Ali** · 03-17-2010, 02:05 PM

(03-17-2010 12:10 PM)SweetBell Wrote:
(03-17-2010 11:48 AM)Ali Wrote: Everyone is entitled to their opinions. If a member posts something that another member disagrees with, so be it. This is a forum. Not every response will be positive or negative, but each response is allowed.

I just wanted to clear up what I meant in my post:

I didn't mean to imply that I think people shouldn't post their opinion if it's different from someone else's. Part of the fun is in debating. That's what creates stimulating conversation. But when a person posts his or her opinion in a way that makes another feel bad about themselves? That's wandering into the realm of cyber-bullying. What I said was more directed to the flamers and trollers out there, not the people looking for a good conversation.

And ghia, I hope you have a good day.

If you ever feel that cyber-bulling, flaming, or trolling has taken place, please feel free to contact myself or any Talk Paranormal staff member.

LMC · 03-17-2010, 10:56 PM

ghia... I think your gift is a good one... cause you seem to realize reality and let people know the truth!

seekingshadow · 03-19-2010, 12:06 PM

I also consider what I have/had as a Curse because it has gotten me nothing but heartache.
I have been Stalked, Harassed, run out of homes, run out of entire States because of this.
That is why I finally shut down and gave up.

UglyNRude · 03-19-2010, 12:11 PM

(03-19-2010 12:06 PM)seekingshadow Wrote: I also consider what I have/had as a Curse because it has gotten me nothing but heartache.
I have been Stalked, Harassed, run out of homes, run out of entire States because of this.
That is why I finally shut down and gave up.

I have to ask why would you be run out of a state? As long as it was used in a good way and not to take advantage of people I don't understand your statement could you gives us more information? Also how can you be forced not to use it? You could still use it for your own personal use just keep it secret.

seekingshadow · (This post was last modified: 03-19-2010 12:25 PM by seekingshadow.)

Because I was homeless at one point, trying to find a place to live, it was because of being Stalked. The person doing so is a "leader" of sorts, of a Global Gang of Net Terrorists and people who do his dirty work for him.
Yes, I have Always tried to use my "abilities" for good. But unfortunately, the more good I did, the more bad that came with it.
One can be foreced, if forced to give up their entire life for someone that doesn't want (me specifically), to have any kind of a life at all.

Let's just say that because of the mess I am in, having been Stalked and harassed, I was forced to homelessness - twice.
I used my "abilities" for good - Always.
Unfortunately, there is someone out there, that wants me gone from this planet and will stop at nothing to Destroy me and when I go to someplace, even to visit, I Never go back twice.
As well, the more good I did, the worse things got and the more bad came on the heels of the good.
I am being forced not to use it by someone so incredibly skeptical that I am Terrified that if I use my Abilities again then I will be farther Destroyed.
I gave up my entire life to pay complete and total attention to that one person that forced me out of my life and my Abilities.

***K2M*** · 03-19-2010, 01:42 PM

Something i have learned over time, we all have bad and even terrible things happen to us. The harder we try to help, the worse it gets, and i do understand that. I have decided within myself, i wont let the evil in this world stop me from helping others. As each day passes, i am becoming more comfortable with myself and the world around me, and this has taken many years of hard work to accomplish.

I will continue my quest to gain my strengh back, emotionally and physically, i am not a quiter, never have been.. We all get scared and down at times, that is normal, as we are only human.

My spirituality is very strong, and keeps me on an even keel. If i slip off the edge, i pick myself back up as i know i can trust myself fully, with God in my soul and heart.