Near death experiences, life changing ?

[Gizmo]

I know a couple of people online who have had an NDE. In both cases, they found their psychic abilities were enhanced afterward. By NDE, I mean the kind where the body stops breathing and is brought back from death.

[Azure]

I'd have to agree the people I know to have had Nde's are quite aware of their "surroundings" if you get my drift. Of course I've also notice the same effects from trauma and abuse. It's seems to me that any dramatic change of a persons worldview through natural or life shaking circumstances could generate heightened psychic awareness.

[fluegellos]

Agree 100% with Gizmo and Azure.

[Azure]

I've also heard that people who have had Nde's tend to usually have a heightened awareness of the other side due to the given connection to zero point. It's my theory that after you experience death once the open connection with zero point doesn't turn off. It's almost the same as having a third eye cleansing except that they are two separate actions with the same results.

[fluegellos]

Hanging and spending then 2 days in coma (2006) - I am not proud of that but something is really different from the previous time. it relates to the sensitivity but the brain potential is fallen - my english came with 3 just 3 months in England, now I am 1,5 years in Germany and I am not fluent in a language. although there is the same opportunity as living in England (TV, newspapers, radio, streets-shops, reading and writing in a german forum I use often translator and what is weird, sevaral times about one and the same word until it is "recorded"
Anyway, the meditation gives a lot from the spiritual side and are appeared specific signs of opening the third eye without paying any attention to it during the meditations.
The bad thing is: I do not remember many things what I really need or my memory is incomplete about those memoryes. This is the real reason why I moved to Germany.
It was summer 2003. I escaped from Spain from the father of my kids, he had brought me there (he was also estonian). I hitchhiked with my 2 year old son Donar back to Estonia. (I was born in Estonia because of the war)
It was 3 clock at night, we were "in the middle of Germany" in a gas station, I met one Mario who wanted to go to Dessau direction. It was the weekend and was not so good about the hitchhiking, so we spent the weekend with him near Dessau. He had his friend Sam drived to the Frankfurt airport, Sam was from Canada and was getting to home after the school year, Sam was teaching English in one of the schools in Dessau.
Within a few days, we talked about many things that he has lost this year, his mother ... My opinion, he has not slept at night, but he sat at the computer to make music. We exchanged phone numbers and email addresses. In the time I was not as "internet person" and had only an email address and that was only from the bank.
Later found me my crazy and violent ex (fled from Spain). End of 2006, I was finally free of this man.The bank prohibit delete all addresses by this time/ and I could not reach Mario.
I'm looking for so long for Mario, a small informatsion is not on the homepage, that this Mario has a friend from Potstam or Leipzig and this friend worked for the police.
On that summer 2003 Mario helped me in a really difficult situation. He had a really good education, but no work. No money, but he was a brilliant person. We talked about everything, like old friends and understood each other perfectly. I read his eyes, at the same time I thought, dadgum, why can not I fall in love with him? I often wonder why it never happened and why I constantly have to think of him? I can not believe no think straight. He was depressed, lonely and moneyless. Asked me questions about Estonia if it is possible for him there to find a professional job, yes, I said 100%. Because Estonia was already a high-tech country. And I promised him that if I go to my mother in Estonia, then I search for apartment and get him from Germany .... It was a big mistake to stay with mom because my ex has found me and made everything unpossible. I feel somehow guilty, he had a big hope of getting away from the bad situation, I want to find him, explain all and apologize to him
But I think really what it is, why leave all behind him, what is it what makes me to search for Mario, can not find the answer. Some people in one german forum ( http://www.allmystery.de ) suggested that it could be a telepathic magnet, that he wants to find the contact with me but has also by some reasons lost my contacts, anyway, I used that my phonenumber what he had, just 2 months and I could not use my email address from the bank so
The weird thing is, that the wish to find him and talk to him gets bigger and bigger by time and I do not get the reason, why, really.
Some people say: "Eh this is not so big deal that you promised something 10 years ago to some forigen nerd...) this gives juts one feeling:

[Azure]

Abuse can be a totally different kind of trauma than dying or being dead. I know because I've been through both of my moms pedigree husbands and the emotions I felt most of the time were greatly effected by a cloud of fear. I would do anything to not tick them off, and so I taught myself how to read their moods. I noticed that after my moms relationship and even into college I could still feel for other peoples emotions and sadly I still use my empathy to create a false emotional reaction to my surroundings. Most of my life I've been able to camouflage my own emotions by reading into how others react to the conditions of my personality. I should also add that although I cannot see spirits, shadow people are heavily attracted to me.

Not all trauma creates the same psychic response, in some ways I think it's a built in self defense mechanism meant for handling heavy amounts of stress, and the psychic response changes based on the event we need to cope with. Sometimes these psychic responses help us cope, but I think most of them also come with a silver lining. We aren't meant for these abilities to become our greatest aspects of ourselves, they are meant to deal with our problems, and taking advantage of them for me has always had a drawback.

[Gizmo]

(03-25-2013 11:02 AM)Azure Wrote:  Abuse can be a totally different kind of trauma than dying or being dead. I know because I've been through both of my moms pedigree husbands and the emotions I felt most of the time were greatly effected by a cloud of fear. I would do anything to not tick them off, and so I taught myself how to read their moods. I noticed that after my moms relationship and even into college I could still feel for other peoples emotions and sadly I still use my empathy to create a false emotional reaction to my surroundings. Most of my life I've been able to camouflage my own emotions by reading into how others react to the conditions of my personality. I should also add that although I cannot see spirits, shadow people are heavily attracted to me.

Not all trauma creates the same psychic response, in some ways I think it's a built in self defense mechanism meant for handling heavy amounts of stress, and the psychic response changes based on the event we need to cope with. Sometimes these psychic responses help us cope, but I think most of them also come with a silver lining. We aren't meant for these abilities to become our greatest aspects of ourselves, they are meant to deal with our problems, and taking advantage of them for me has always had a drawback.

Azure, my husband says the same thing. If someone has had a difficult childhood, one of the coping mechanisms is to develop almost a radar for knowing when it's safe. This can involve developing into an Empath. He bases this on his own experience. And his own resulting empathy.

I also agree that people aren't usually able to see this way. It is almost like we are shielded somehow from this. But for some, there are life events that break down the barrier. And the psychic stuff just floods in. It's like a chink in our natural armor.

I have never heard of anyone who has developed strong abilities as an Empath want those abilities. It's crippling at times. I've only heard of people with minimal abilities wish to "develop" them. Be careful what you wish for, I'd say to them.

[energy]

(01-25-2008 07:42 AM)Haunted Wrote:  Maybe for some people just the realization of coming so close to dying shakes them up and makes them have more appreciation for the things they do have in life and that's why they change so much and become more loving, faithful etc.

Coming that close to actually losing every thing and everyone you have would definitely be a eye opener! Although, if it really is like it's described, then to me it would be standing right in the presence of God and I'd imagine that would make almost anyone change for the better!

Hey haunted you got me started on this website. i want to ask tou if youve ever met a necromancer?

[fluegellos]

(03-25-2013 07:35 AM)fluegellos Wrote:  Hanging and spending then 2 days in coma (2006)

a little keybiard fix: hanged up

[Azure]

(03-26-2013 11:21 AM)energy Wrote:  

(01-25-2008 07:42 AM)Haunted Wrote:  Maybe for some people just the realization of coming so close to dying shakes them up and makes them have more appreciation for the things they do have in life and that's why they change so much and become more loving, faithful etc.

Coming that close to actually losing every thing and everyone you have would definitely be a eye opener! Although, if it really is like it's described, then to me it would be standing right in the presence of God and I'd imagine that would make almost anyone change for the better!

Hey haunted you got me started on this website. i want to ask tou if youve ever met a necromancer?

The way that I've heard it is that when you have crossed the zero point the connection with the other side remains open, which can sometimes allow a person to Chanel spirits of the dead. Crossing zero point is the same reason why children are so much more sensitive. You cross zero point twice, once when your born and once when you die.