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okay so i was hanging out with some friends in a haunted location i am friends with the guy who lives there but anyways i was by myself in a bedroom that i sleep in when im there a man commited suicide in that room.i looked over to the corner and saw a shadowy thing just like kinda standing there so i turned to it and said "well hello there" i wasnt afraid at all i was a small bit uncomfertable but not scared. was it a stupid thing to do to speak to this thing my friends said i shouldnt have but it really just kinda slipped out.the thing just stayed there for a minute then left it didnt seem mean so why was it so bad for me to speak to it.

I think you where just being friendly, thats all.... Im sure if it where the guy that died there, he was glad to have someone take notice of him. He is probably a lonely soul... I think you did good!!!! You have a kind heart!!!

Your friend might think it will follow you home.

(02-01-2010 12:05 PM)razor242 Wrote: [ -> ]okay so i was hanging out with some friends in a haunted location i am friends with the guy who lives there but anyways i was by myself in a bedroom that i sleep in when im there a man commited suicide in that room.i looked over to the corner and saw a shadowy thing just like kinda standing there so i turned to it and said "well hello there" i wasnt afraid at all i was a small bit uncomfertable but not scared. was it a stupid thing to do to speak to this thing my friends said i shouldnt have but it really just kinda slipped out.the thing just stayed there for a minute then left it didnt seem mean so why was it so bad for me to speak to it.

I think it's awesome that you had this experience. Had i been there I would have done the same exact thing. Imagine if it responded to you. You will not learn anything if you don't try

In my opinion it would have been more foolish not to try and communicate with the entity. If it was willing and able to talk I would have a million questions about the afterlife.It would definitely be an awesome experience.

I totally agree with the above ^
If you ever got that chance to encounter/communicate with a spirit, then why not try? It might be a one in five million chance, but what if one time, you got a reply?! That would be amazing.

I bet the ghost was happy that someone actually talked to him. I bet he is used to people running away. It's good to be friendly with them so they don't annoy you but sometimes they follow you as they think you are friends. If you ever see a spirit try talking it. Ask him to tap once if he wants you there or two times if he wants you to leave. Well thats what some ghost communicators do to see if it's friendly.

I have many spirits/entities that have followed me over a lifetime. We all get along fine, well, most of the time!!! Some get a little roudy at times, and some can get aggravating, but, all in all, we live together in harmony most of the time..

Many of these spirits are like little puppies, they are lonely and they latch on to a sweet person. On the other hand, the bad ones tend to do that also at times, just a chance you have to take.

When my stress level gets up the bad ones try to take advantage, but i quickly tell them where the door is if they cant behave....

I know it sounds strange, but, this is my life. Razor, i feel you have many gifts. Just like anything else new, you have to learn. Keep your heart strong and kind. Dont let anyone put bad thoughts into your head, ever. YOu have total control over yourself.

If people cant accept you for who you are, well, as i have aged i feel that i dont need them. Now, i know you are young and under parents care, so its not so easy. There will come a time as you get older that you can spread your wings as far as you want and fly...

This is something to look forward to!!! Life is what we make it, make it as good as you can....

sorry for rambling, i just see that you are very strong and have tons of courage, and as long as you stick to your guns, you will go far in life.....

One more thing!! When you life is hard, you learn a lot and gain much experience, this is what you can share with others, and help them through the tough times as well....

I think you did the right thing by saying "Hi!", it gets across the message that you are not scared of him, so if he had had malicious intentions, they would have been wasted on you.

K2M- You mentioned that some spirits have followed you around for your lifetime. That's really interesting. Are these spirits of people you knew in life? How do they make themselves known to you? Do you see them physically?
I bet you have some amazing stories